What is special about you? What is it that you do, so easily, so effortlessly, so brilliantly that others find difficult? Have you acknowledged those things? Or do you often overlook them, thinking they are no big deal?
Maybe you have someone in your life who really “gets” you. They see the gift of you and honor it. Maybe you don’t. Either way, what would it take for YOU to see the gift of you? “What would it take for you to realize how crucial you are to the possibilities of the world?” (Gary Douglas)
You are a gift that doesn’t exist anywhere else on the planet. There is no other you. When you judge you, make yourself wrong, try to cover up and hide who you truly are, the whole world misses out. YOU miss out.
What if the key to being satisfied in life, was to be you? What if the key to having what you desire in life was to be you. Sound too simple? Too good to be true?
Would you be willing to consider that every area of your life gets easier and more fun we you recognize what is special about you? Business. Money. Animals. Health. Body. Pick any area of your life. YOU acknowledging the gift of you and choosing to be that changes everything.
This is an invitation to you to have more fun than you are supposed to have, to have more of everything that brings you joy no matter what anyone else says about it and to be comfortable in your own skin. Finding the Specialness of You opens the door to all of this and more.
What WOULD it take for you to recognize how crucial you are to the possibilities of the world?
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You are a gift that doesn’t exist anywhere else on the planet... Would you be willing to consider that every area of your life gets easier and more fun we you recognize
X-Men ~ Creating a REAL Future with Gary Douglas and Diva Diaz was such a contribution to so many people. It took what we’ve all known is possible with X-Men and exponentialised it.
Throughout the class, Gary and Diva spoke about where we all make ourselves wrong and how this locks us up from creating the real future that could be available.
What if ...everything that you have ever been told is a wrongness about you is, in fact, a strongness about you that you chose to come to this planet with. It is not so much a wrongness but the fact that your parents, family, teachers and others couldn’t control you to the degree that they wanted to.
Often the one place you will stick yourself with is what you have decided you have got right. So ask:
1. Where is the consciousness here?
2. What’s right about me that I’m not getting?
3. What do I know here that I’m pretending not to know or denying that I know?
Want more right away? Read this blog by Jeni Be CF To Follow the Rules or Not
More of these tools and questions are explored in these classes:
The Beginning of a Different Possibility - 1 Day Class
What if behind every single wrongness there is a strongness; a great capacity and a huge gift that you are to the world? More info HERE
X-Men: Disabilities or Abilities - 2 Day Class
There are many so-called dis-eases that can be transformed into greater possibilities for living using the tools of Access Consciousness®. In this specialist class, we will talk about some very practical tools that create totally different possibilities for people who are labeled ‘disabled’ or who have ‘incurable’ illnesses. What if they (or you!) are just the start of what else could be possible on our planet? Would you like to create a very different future? When we use these abilities to our advantage, we can!
More information HERE
These tools and techniques from these classes create more space , easeful living and much more. We are very excited to share to have some extra WORLDWIDE classes and ( drum roll please) … X-Men The Beginning of a Different Possibility AND X-Men Disabilities or Abilities will be
Live & Live Streamed Worldwide in July from UK.
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by Donnielle Carter
You’ve done what you are supposed to do.
You’ve asked your body what it would like to eat and it’s told you a chocolate candy bar.
What do you do next? You say to yourself, “Well, if a chocolate bar is what my body desires then it won’t negatively affect my body!”
What happens then? You gain weight, you feel sick, you break out…WHAT HAPPENED? “I was supposed to eat the chocolate and everything would be good!”
Your body may have indicated that it desired the chocolate bar but, TRUTH, do you have any judgment of chocolate? Do you have any judgments about what chocolate may do to your body? The rightness of it or the wrongness of it? The sugar in it? That you shouldn’t be eating it?
What if what we are judging about the food could negate how much our body receives from the food?
Your Body speaks energy. As you are eating the food that your body has indicated, if you are doing it with the unspoken energetic judgments of “This chocolate will make me fat” guess what your body hears? “Eat this and get fat!”
Don’t fear, it’s not hopeless! Next time your body indicates what it desires to eat, before you take the first bite ask, “Truth do I have any judgments of this food?” Then POD POC whatever comes up. The judgment could be as simple as, “I’m eating salad it’s good for me. Or I’m eating chocolate and it’s bad for me.” When you get rid of the judgment you have of the food then your body is able to receive what it originally asked for with the food. Just this one simple tool will help you to increase the ease of communication with your body!
What if you could move beyond any rightness or wrongness with your body? What if you were willing to receive your body and truly listen to all that it is communicating with you? Might that change your experience on the earth? Might that even contribute to the earth in ways you’ve never imagined?
Our bodies are intimately connected with all other living things, the plants, the animals, and the Earth. Have you ever noticed how peaceful you feel in nature? There is no judgment there, just a sense of space and allowance. What if you could have that with your body? What if you could nurture and be grateful your body as the Earth is for you?
On a more intimate level, our bodies are full of information and awareness that can assist us in creating beyond what we can do alone with our minds. Gary Douglas, founder of Access Consciousness, talks about the body as a sensory organism constantly giving us information that we often do not listen to or receive.
Often, an unwillingness to receive information from our bodies can lead to sensations we perceive as pain or discomfort. We look at our body as an enemy to force and fight into the shape or size we desire. What if the opposite it actually true?
“WHAT IF YOUR BODY WAS ACTUALLY YOUR GREATEST ALLY?”What if you could talk to your body and ask it questions? What shape and size would your body like to be? What contribution can your body be to you and your life?
The separation from our body and viewing it as less has existed throughout history. It has been perpetrated by churches, cults and religions and many cultures. Traditionally bodies have been seen as limiting us and preventing us from accessing what is a “higher spiritual level”. What if that was all a lie?
What if that keeps us from the awareness of the greatness and possibilities of our bodies?
There is a different possibility. One that involves communion with your body. What if you never had to separate from or judge your body again? What if you were willing to receive the kindness, the generosity and the awarenesses that your body has to offer? Is this something that might expand your life?
But I have news for you: that is not actually your body talking – that’s you. To be more accurate, it’s the judgments that you have of your body – about what is wrong with it (not healthy enough, not skinny enough) – and what you have decided you must do to change it. Those decisions rarely have anything to do with your own body, but it is what you have been taught you need to be doing by everyone else.
Instead of being in conflict with your body and looking outside of you for the answers, what if there was an easier, gentler and more nurturing way of creating the changes you would like?
If you desire to change your body, you are going to have to do three things.
When I started asking my body about everything involving it – what it wanted to eat, wear and what movement it wanted to do – I became aware of a whole lot of things by body desired that I had never realised before. I often tell the story of the first time I tried on a linen shirt. My body just sang! I realised it was saying to me, “Hey, can we wear stuff that makes us feel like this from now on?”
Your body knows things that you don’t. When you start asking questions, it opens the door for your body to contribute that information to you, and to create a greater connection and communion with your body. When you start including your body in your life, all kinds of things can change
In contributing to a greater relationship with your body, I would like to invite you to be part of something that is occurring globally from the 17th-18th December called the Body Awareness Weekend. There will be Body Awareness events occurring all over the world. To find out more at what happens at these events and to find an event near you, go to http://thebodyawarenessweekend.com/
Curry teaches a course called “Right Riches for You”, and she is constantly surprised at what stops people from earning the money they want and deserve. “When we get down to the core of people’s money beliefs on a course, there’s always a story they’re not aware of. For some it’s that their parents never had enough and taught them that money was always in short supply; for some it’s their culture or religion’s view on wealth – for me it was that I had grown up with some very wealthy people who did some very unkind things so I associated wealth with meanness and saw money as the root of all my malaise.”
Whatever the background story is, change comes quickly when people discover the often untrue subconscious thoughts they have about money. “Once I realized that money wasn’t evil, I stopped spending it wildly and living beyond my means. I no longer tried to get rid of it as soon as I got it, as I realized wealth wasn’t something terrible. There are plenty of nice wealthy people out there and people are unkind because they’re unkind, not because they’re rich!”
There are some questions Curry says you can ask yourself to discover what hidden points of view you many have about money. Here are some of them:
1. How do you view money? Is it a happy or sad thing?
2. Is money easy to make? Why or why not?
3. What should people do when they have lots of money? Save or Spend? Why?
4. What are your family’s views on money?
5. What does your culture or religion say about money?
6. What do your friends think about money?
7. Would you like to be earning more? If so, why do you think this isn’t happening?
If you answer these types of questions honestly you can start to form a picture of your money mindset. Then you need to start genuinely questioning whether your answers are true. For example if you realize one of your recurring thoughts is “Money makes you greedy” or “you have to work long hours to make good money” or “I can only ever earn a maximum of $50,000 a year doing my job” you have to look at whether that’s actually a fact or not. More often than not, it isn’t true and if you can let it go, everything can change in a matter of minutes”
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In an informal survey I did, the most common concern people had about relationships was how to be in one without giving up themselves. What good is a relationship in which you’ve given yourself away so dramatically that you cannot be you in the relationship?
What steps can you take to be sure you create a great relationship without giving you up?
DON’T TAKE YOUR PARTNER’S POINT OF VIEW PERSONALLY.
What if their opinion was just their opinion, an expression of them being them, without having anything to do with you?
My husband, for example, loves riding motorcycles. It brings him a joy he finds nowhere else. I find them terrifying. He is smart enough not to expect me to jump on the back with him, and I am happy for him to have his bike and ride it.
At the same time, I let him know my point of view. When he rode down the hill from our house with our then 8-year-old son on the back, I let him know that he was riding off with everything in the world that was most important to me. I just said it once, and I said it without force or drama. I was letting him know my point of view, without asking him to change his.
CONSIDER HOW WHAT YOU SAY WILL AFFECT YOUR RELATIONSHIP BEFORE YOU SAY IT.
Does my husband do things that are annoying? Of course. But before I say anything about those socks lying around on the floor of the bedroom, looking like they have a life of their own because they still conform to the shape of his foot, I look at whether I really want to pollute the air between us with a complaint. Usually it’s enough to remind myself it’s not worth wasting my time or breath on.
I am sure I give him plenty of things to complain about as well. I figure if I complain less, so will he.
And, if something really bothers me, of course I will say something. I suspect because I complain about him so rarely, when I do, I will have his attention.
EXPRESS YOUR GRATITUDE AS OFTEN AS POSSIBLE.
One of the things that waters the flower in your relationship is gratitude. Can anyone express or receive too much of this magic elixir?
Judgment—your point of view that your partner is somehow wrong—is a relationship killer. Gratitude and judgment cannot exist in the same universe. The more gratitude you have, the less real, relevant, and common your judgments will be.
Gratitude can be for actions large or small. The more you have and the more you sincerely express, the better your relationship will be.
USE QUESTIONS, NOT COMMANDS OR DEMANDS, OR ACCUSATIONS.Do you enjoy being told what to do? Neither does almost anyone else. We’re all 2 year olds at heart, and when someone tells us what to do, our gut reaction is to dig our heels in and refuse. Whenever you make a statement about what your partner should do, that’s an order or command. It’s not likely to be well-received. Any statement that starts with “You always….” Is an accusation.
On the other hand, if you ask a question, you create an opening to hear from your partner. Their point of view, while different from yours, could be equally valid and even eye-opening.
Some useful questions are, “Was there a reason you chose x?” “How do you think we could accomplish x (whatever outcome you desire)?” “What would it take for x to occur?” These questions can create a dialog where both of your points of view can be heard and valued.
For more on Right Voice for You you can explore HERE
Have you ever wondered if the Avatar connection (where the blue alien humanoids could literally ‘plug’ into another animal to create a closer emotional / energetic bond) was something that you are actually capable of?
Have you ever stopped to think how energetic we already are as beings. Ever walked in a room and just known the mood of the person before they even turned around to look at you or speak? Have you been in nature and your whole body and being lightened up and relaxed? Or walked down a street or into a building and had a sense that something was a bit ‘creepy’ or not really a place you would like to hang around in? That is an awareness of energy. What could we create if we could acknowledge our energetic awareness and use it to create all kinds of things, like a connection with a horse?
The primary language of horses (and us!) is energy. You can of course learn all the traditional ways of handling and riding a horse with all the physical cues… and what if using the language of energy was another possibility that you could add to the mix to create something even greater?
Here are two ways you can begin to play with energy to create a connection with your horse, or any horse (or animal, or person!) you encounter.
1. Pull Energy
On a recent episode of the Conscious Horse Conscious Rider (CHCR) radio show “Horses Talk, We Listen,” a woman asked how she could have as much ease riding bareback as she does with a saddle and all the tack. Armina Bridgeman, Conscious Horse, Conscious Rider clinic facilitator, said: “One of the best tools is to pull energy through your horse. Whether you are sitting on them bareback or not, this will work. Pull energy up through the ground, up through the horse, up through you. It creates this amazing connection to your horse and makes you more present with it, too.”
For those of you who wonder ‘how’ to pull energy. Just ask the energy to flow, and don’t doubt yourself! Hanne Stigaard, another Conscious Horse Conscious Rider clinic facilitator, said she never used to ‘feel’ anything when she was first pulling energy, but she did notice the result, such as sensing the horse relax and enjoying an easier ride when she did. Hanne also has another tip for creating a greater connection with your horse – be the leader of the herd by expanding your energy, and requesting of your horse, not using force.
2. Request, Don’t Force
Are you willing to be the energy of the Alpha horse?
Hanne says, “Horses are herd animal and prey animals. Their lives depend on the most powerful leader. The leader will be the one with the most expanded energy and biggest awareness (not necessarily the one with the biggest muscles or physical strength), who will pick up that there is a predator over there and we need to now move in that direction. The natural state for a horse will be to look for who the leader is in their herd. For a horse, a herd is a herd, even if it is them and you. So they are looking for, ‘Ok are you going to lead here, or me?’”
Taking the lead is not about force, it is about being the one willing to make a request, like:
“Will you take care of me?” “If we go for a ride today, will it be fun for us?” or “What do you require in order for us to have an enjoyable ride today?”
Are you curious about more tips and tools for creating a greater connection and greater possibilities with your horse? Are you wondering how being with a horse can invite you to be a true leader in your life, and more? Check out past and upcoming shows of “Horses Talk, We Listen” on blogtalk radio: http://www.blogtalkradio.com/conscioushorseconsciousrider
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There was the voice of my teacher from school. The voice of doing it my Dad’s way. The voice of so many rules and regulations about how things should be done. All of these voices were a constant barrage flowing through my head. With the intensity of this, it seemed I could never get it right and I usually just wound myself in knots trying to convey what I was wanted to say. Convinced I could never actually say it.
When I attended an X-Men class with Diva Diaz, using the tools of Access Consciousness, I was bowled over to find out things could be different! Wow! I had never even considered this. I never even thought to give it a try! How do you write an email without form? Without structure?
What would that look like for ME?
The very possibility of this, changed everything for me. The awareness that I could do it another way spiraled through me and I had so many questions. I asked many questions. Asking those questions allowed me to be open different possibilities and in essence gave me the ability to be more aware of the flow and the energy when writing emails.
So if you are stuck with a particular point of view, such as, ‘I am a terrible writer’ or ‘I have to do things the way other people do them even though it doesn’t work for me’ here are 3 things you can try:
1. Let Your Thoughts Pass Through
When you notice a point of view, rather than agreeing with it, allow those thoughts, allow those ‘points of view’ to just flow through your brain, a bit like trains running through a station. Do not giving them any credence, they are just passing through. Saying, “Interesting point of view I have that point of view” every time you have a thought and that will help you to let your thoughts pass through; rather than letting them cloud your mind and stick you.
2. Always Ask Questions
A great question to ask is “What else is possible?” or “What could I choose in this 10 seconds?”
Questions open up doors which allow you to choose something that others may not be choosing but that would work for you.
3. DO MORE!!!
Do more than 10 things at once, and smile with the effortless ease that it just may bring… Sound crazy?
It didn’t work for me to try to write an email like everyone said I had to –with a beginning, a middle and an end. It was too methodical. Too slow. I can do more than one thing at once and when I do, I have way more fun and get more things done.
Right now, as I am working on this article, I have 15 tabs open on my computer. I have a half written post on Facebook, partial information on a website where I am posting a class, a graphic nearly completed, numerous documents open, videos playing, iTunes open, Skype pinging, emails ready to send… and that’s just to name a few of the things that I am creating at the same time!
EVERY SINGLE one of these creations is contributing to my writing just now … EVERY SINGLE ENERGY in all those creations are a contribution. In receiving all of the information at the same time, I ask a question and follow the flow. It does NOT make sense!! It is not meant to! That is the joy of it. IT IS NOT MEANT TO MAKE SENSE!
With these tools, and with the knowing that it’s not about right and wrong, there is more than one way something can be done and that when I do more life is easier, I have changed the way I create. I no longer make myself wrong for how I write emails or create anything else. I may start at the end of the email or an article then add in a bit in the beginning or middle. I simply follow what pops in my awareness to write, where to write, when to write… and I follow it.
It is so amazing, to see how much using these tools has changed writing for me. I seem to be able to write faster (yet I still require spell check). Rather than having a struggle every time I write, it’s now a playful and fun creation filled with ease. It’s a playing with words and gifting from all creations. It’s the ‘je ne c’est quoi’ (an intangible quality that makes something distinctive or attractive).
So my question to you is…what do you know about functioning in an entirely different way with everything you have ever been taught? What else could you choose by asking a question and opening up other possibilities?
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What most people have learned to do, is to interpret their body’s symptoms. Once they experience discomfort, they conclude that there must be something wrong. Does this ever give you the possibility to find out what is truly going on with you and your body? Every time you determine that there must be something wrong, you can see nothing other than negative judgment. Once you start asking questions and are curious, you have the possibility to get free. The common belief is that if one understands what is going on, then the situation can be controlled. But, does control ever work?
Controlling body symptoms by trying to make sense of them seldom works. When you try to get rid of anxiety, you usually become even more anxious. What would be possible if you are no longer controlling the anxiety but using it as a positive force in your life?
What gift can anxiety be?
Pain and discomfort only get created when you resist what is going on. What you resist persists.
What if what you recognize as fear and anxiety is something totally different than what you have interpreted it to be?
What joy and excitement is there for you to discover beyond what you have called anxiety? These are the gifts your body will begin to identify.
About Susanna Mittermaier
Susanna Mittermaier is a clinical psychologist and a Right Voice/ Access Consciousness Facilitator. A bestselling author and worldwide speaker, she is also the founder of Pragmatic Psychology.
For more on Right Voice for you and available classes, visit the RVFY page HERE